<—A message for all of you strong, brave, courageous Girls
From Strong, brave, courageous Eliza:
What incredible stories of survival, hope and support for those needing encouragement to “get out”. The word whispered to me by God as I picked up and put down my packed bag 3 times was simply “Go!” I left without my teenage children. I had no choice. By the next day my children found me and haven’t left my side. I pray they are not forever scarred by their fathers narcissism which appears to be genetic unfortunately. I pray I am breaking the curse of the “sins of the father last 7 generations”. And I pray I didn’t harm my children by staying for so long. The relief on my 16 year old sons face when I told him I was never going back. I will never forget how he exhaled and said “Mom….I am so glad. You were not safe there. “. Please pray for us. I left 5 months ago. Have a restraining order that he has violated 3 times in less than 2 weeks and I fear reporting him because it will provoke him to hurt us more. I thought I married the sweetest and most gentle man in the world. For any of you reading this and feel trapped due to your Christian views regarding divorce…..read The Emotionally Destructive Marriage. I pray it empowers you to learn that a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church. Anything less is unacceptable as it was instructed by God. YOU are the daughter of a KING and your Heavenly Father hurts when you are emotionally abused at the hand of a narcissist. Do NOT fall into the trap of feeling sorry for the narcissist. It will get you NOWHERE. Kathy, thank you for this blog based in Christian faith! God can and will rescue us. The path is hard and many times I have just had to say “God I trust you
fully”. The anxiety over how to survive without the narcissist is of the devil. He wants you afraid and trapped because you will do things not of your character or faith when you are weak and abused. I say to all of you suffering as God said to me (I’ll never forget that STRONG whisper)…..”GO!”